In the game of sex and sexuality, a man’s main value on a reproductive aspect is based mainly on his social status and wealth, often measured through his intelligence, confidence, character, social skills and other aspects of his behavior.
Women’s, on the other hand, is primarily based on how fertile she is as measured through her looks (big boobs, hip-to-waist ratio, etc.) and ovulation.
Despite the differences, both spend a great deal of time producing eggs or sperms while fantasizing about sex. This combined desire makes up a person’s sexual energy. When used the right way, it can lead to creative and productive achievements. When used the wrong way, it has consequences too.
This brings us to the point I want to make, you need to harness your sexual energy in a positive way.
As what Napoleon Hill said in his book “Think And Grow Rich:”
“When driven by this desire, men develop keenness of imagination, courage, will-power, persistence, and creative ability unknown to them at other times. So strong and impelling is the desire for sexual contact that men freely run the risk of life and reputation to indulge it.
When harnessed, and redirected along other lines, this motivating force maintains all of its attributes of keenness of imagination, courage, etc., which may be used as powerful creative forces in literature, art, or in any other profession or calling, including, of course, the accumulation of riches.”
No man or woman would want to deal with negativity in any shape or form. So our objective is always to stay positive.
How to Cultivate Sexual Energy to Your Advantage
Abstain from ejaculation but not sex
Sex and orgasms make for a great mood and satisfying life. Both give you the energy to take on bigger challenges. But if you spend your seed on mere ejaculations, you are drained of energy needed to achieve a more substantial life.
This is why the Taoists recommend limiting ejaculations to increase focus, longevity, and vitality.
Avoid indiscriminate sex
While lots of sex is good, doing it indiscriminately and making it your primary goal can have an adverse effect. It’s what savages do, after all. Follow their lead and you will become a savage yourself.
Limit porn viewing
Too much and too frequent porn watching will drain vital energy. It is important that you give it up to save your seed for more rewarding sex, orgasm, and other activities. If you do, expect vast changes in your mood, personality, and happiness.
It is also important to remember that keeping your seed attracts while spilling it constantly repulses others.
Redirect sexual desire and energy
Consciously focus them on your business and life and you will find yourself becoming a money-making machine. Who doesn’t want that? I know I do. And, considering that sexual energy is almost limitless, you will have plenty to harness and use to your advantage.
Most importantly, get a good woman. The love and support of a good woman will help you focus on your goal and succeed. Didn’t they say that behind every man’s success is a woman? Well, it is true.
Sexual energy is a fuel that you can use in the best way possible. Harness it right.